THE PLACE OF ROMANCE IN MARRIAGE (SPECIAL EXTRA)

The source of dryness in marriage has been traced to lack of romance in the home. Something important is missing in many homes, where there is fighting and wrangling, it is no other thing than ROMANCE. It may sound worldly, it may depict rottenness, that is for single but I know one of the essential reason why you married your spouse was that he romantic. 

Romance doesn’t have to be in bed, which is what has brought calamity in homes today, the only time when some couples are romantic, is when they are ready for OPERATION GO TO BED. It doesn’t matter how lifeless that your fiancé or fiancée used to be before you married, he or she was romantic in one way or the other, which almost made you to commit fornication then, until you waited patiently to do the needful on her, while some people couldn’t wait to pay the needful, yet, I wonder why the same spouse of yours, who you always want to have his or her neck on you has become someone who isn’t interesting to you anymore. 

You need to retrace your step back to bethel, where you met yourself and the journey that led to marriage. Go and pick those romantic baggages that you disposed because of family responsibilities. Romance isn’t tantamount to sex but it is the JOHN THE BAPTIST that clears the way for the coming MESSIAH. 

WHERE ARE THOSE ROMANTIC MOVES?

Good Dressing: Daddies and Mummies, it is time to consciously work on what will put on. Home responsibilities have turned many sweeties to monster, many honeys to brucelee in the home. Stand to your feet to bring down any imagination that is bringing disorderliness to your home that no more.

Mummy and daddy, don’t postpone your daily bath till noon because it’s a holiday, bath and dress up in your casuals, if it’s a holiday. Mummies, sew cooking wraps with a stunning label to get your husband triggering as you cook, to make your husband your maid, while you are in the kitchen. Throw away those wrappers, they are killing and destructives get gowns, bumper shorts, tights and short gown to cook for your husband.

Ask yourself if you are catchy for your husband as you are going out and you need to change when you are in the bedroom, which will make him to be restless until he comes to touch you.

Good Words: I think Africans are used to not commenting, ensure you are also appearing nice that will attract a comment; there is always a little touch that will provoke good comments. If your spouse is not commenting, ask him about his comment and let him talk more. Africans are mostly used to complain than give good comment, when it ought.

Give thrilling comment as regards his dressing, her cook, her steps, dance, work, sex style, and other things. This will thrill your spouse to want to do more and deliver better result.

Good Perfumes: You will pay more, when responsibilities finally take your home from you. Get affordable perfumes instead of you becoming scentless, wear your perfume and let your spouse know you are still in vogue.

Perfume is powerful to ease anger, to get concentration and attraction from people especially your spouse. Let your apartment smell nice, including the toilet, if you can afford it, it reveals romance to your spouse.

Good Outlook: You can dress well and not have a good outlook. Many women need to be taught how to smile and laugh, where the need be. A good outlook boosts good dressing. You good outlook is balanced with your color, smiles, communication and steps.

Touchery: The above stated will provoke touchery. This point is expedient that it has made sex to become tug of war because it isn’t often. Your spouse must be used to your touch; he or she needs your constant touch in the room, bathroom, kitchen, living room, church, office, market place, family house.

Make it a habit, to get closer to her, let there be body contact on a timely basis, put your head on his lap, put your hands across his neck, put your legs on his back, laps, hands. Consciously do it and you will see how it will fuel up your intimacy.

Dapo Olaleye, an Associate Pastor in Balance Gospel Ministries International Headquarters. He is the President of Business Xploit Group with Nine Subsidiaries through which lives are blessed around the globe. Chancellor of Business Xploit institute, Facilitator in School Of Discovery (Gospel Dominion Prayer Ministries), author of seven books (Unlocking Your Potentials To Profits, Uncommon Sense Guide To Making Money, Woman! You Are A Blessing Not A Burden, Ladies Of Dignity, More Than Money, A-Z Secrets Of Academic Excellence, Becoming An Academic High Flier and Generating God’s Ideas For Business, Ministry, Career (CD)). He is an alumnus of Daystar Leadership Academy and Daystar Business Academy and Student of Word Of Faith Bible Institute. He can be reached via: bizxploit@gmail.com, 08122927079.